How do you relate with kids?

[Henrywrites]

Over time, we have come to see the real essence of being good at what we do ranging from the way that we talk with friends and family members to the way we relate with people at work. However, one important aspect of relationship that I see many not utilize well is the way we relate with kids around us. I always feel that we should talk with them in a calm manner and I get angry when I see some parents beat their kids. So, would be glad to read how you relate with your kids as parents?

 

[spaget]

I don't have kids yet but in our family, we don't beat children when they do mistakes. We talk to them sternly and have different consequences based on what they have done, but nothing that hurts physically or emotionally. Just enough so that they learn their lesson for the future.

 

[bienn05]

I don't have kids but I have young siblings aged 7 and 11. They are the type of children who always hold their mobile phones and just watched videos in Youtube over and over. I just join them in what they are watching and ask them how is it about that video. Then the bond goes on, they will tell a story to you over and over.

 

[superlicca]

I don't have kids but I have cousins aged 4 and 6 years old and they used to live in our home for a few months. I love to be with them and during the time that they were living in our home, I enjoyed their company. They were full of joy and their laughter was very contagious. And I agree with you that we should talk to them in a good way because what they see in adults is something that they tend to do.

 

[wallet]

I am a father of two boys, my older son has 12 years old and my second boy has ten months, I love my kids and I never beat them, I do scream a lot to my older son because he has an issue with using too much its PC. I think that parents resolve nothing beating their kids, we must talk to our kids and try to understand and communicate with them in the right manner, communication resolve most of the problems.

 

[mark86]

Kids are really amazing. I like kids. I love playing with them. There were times that they have tantrums but this is just a normal one. All you need to stop this is of course tell them and talk to them nicely. I have nephews and I set time for them to play games. I usually give them an hour of playing games per day but school days are not allowed.

 

[mark86]

I don't have kids but I have young siblings aged 7 and 11. They are the type of children who always hold their mobile phones and just watched videos in Youtube over and over. I just join them in what they are watching and ask them how is it about that video. Then the bond goes on, they will tell a story to you over and over.

That is good thing. Playing games or watching together with them is a good bonding, for that also you monitor what they are watching for.

 

[jeffreyjose48]

Yes. I relate with kids. I have 2 kids that's why I can relate with kids. I played with them.

 

[mitan143]

Unfortunately, there are no kids in our home anymore. The youngest member of my family is 16 at age. I don't consider him a kid anymore even though he's the youngest one. But during his younger years when he was like 10 or 11 years old, he is very naugthy and a hard-headed boy. Luckily, as he grows older and now that he's already a teenager... he becomes a good boy finally. Actually I can say that I'm a proud sister for him and he's cool.

 

[Fexi]

I'd never beat my kids but I have always found a firm tone does the job when needed. There's never a reason to resort to violence; especially when kids are involved.

 

[Sara]

Sometimes, I don't blame parents when they beat their kids because kids are really annoying and they are expert in making one to be angry. The only solution to their annoyance towards parents is just to calmly scold or punish them, I think it will be better.

Kids are among my soft spot. I love kids very well. I see them as angels. Too beautiful to deny attention. I give them punishment if they did something bad but I don't give them the ones that are far beyond them. Sometimes, they laugh at me because I don't know how to punish them.

 

[Shortie]

I became a mother at a young age, I was 17 nearly 18 when I had my first and by the time I was 23, I'd had four kids.

Many people told me it was a bad idea to have as many kids as young as I did but when I look at how our relationship is now they have grown up, I don't believe it was a bad idea.

I get on with all my kids and we have a great relationship and share a lot of the same interests, we are all gamers, all enjoy watching certain YouTubers and it's a happy home.